For a lot of gay and bi men, being touched slowly and with care is rarer than it should be. Touch often comes with expectations, a performance or a clock running. These sessions are built the other way round: nothing is expected of you, and the whole hour is about what your body actually wants.
Alex is a queer-affirming practitioner and a Pink Therapy Advanced Accredited Therapist, with a background in health psychology. You do not need to explain your identity, your history or your relationship status. You can simply arrive.
What people come for
- Deep relaxation and an unhurried, sensual experience of their own body.
- Reconnecting after a hard chapter — a breakup, a diagnosis, recovery, or years without caring touch.
- Softening shame around the body or desire that was learned early and never quite left.
- Curiosity about Tantra and slower, more present intimacy.
If some of this needs words as well as touch, Sexual Wellbeing Coaching works on its own or alongside bodywork.
Sessions and prices
- The Awakening · 60 minutes · £150 — a focused introduction: slow, grounding bodywork centred on breath and deep relaxation.
- The Alex Experience · 90 minutes · £200 — the signature session, shaped around your Comfort Map.
- The Deep Surrender · 120 minutes · £250 — more time for grounding, full-body flow and a gentle close.
- The Signature Escape (VIP) · 90 minutes · £300 — a private VR opening, Hawaiian Lomi Lomi Nui and one element of your choice.
- Couples session · 90 minutes · £280, and packages of three or five signature sessions.
Payment is by bank transfer or in cash on the day. Every session is also available as a gift voucher.
Consent and privacy
Sessions are trauma-informed and guided by the Wheel of Consent: you decide what each touch is for, and every yes can become a no at any moment. Nothing intimate is assumed. Privacy is part of the service — only the details needed to book are collected, and nothing about you is ever shared.
Questions
Is this only for gay men?
It is designed especially with gay, bi, queer and trans men in mind, and all adults who connect with the approach are welcome.
Do I need to be out?
No. Everything is confidential, and you never need to explain your identity or your situation.
Can I come with my partner?
Yes. A 90-minute couples session is £280, shaped around both of your Comfort Maps.
Is this a sexual service?
No. This is professional, consent-led bodywork. It is not an escort service and no sexual services are provided or exchanged.